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Let’s Give Them Something to Talk About

24 Monday Nov 2025

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Three Notch’d District Conference
November 23, 2025
Good Shepherd United Methodist Church
John 1:35-46

Before I pray and before I preach, I believe it is important for me to say a few things that need to be said. I believe that, in so many ways, the church writ large and the United Methodist Church in particular are at a crossroads unlike any we have ever previously encountered. As such, it is important that, in all that is to come, we truly get it right. This wounded and broken world is watching us; watching and waiting to see whether we will truly rise to the present moment, whether we will trade our birthright for the weak and stale broth of political power, or if we will rise to our calling to be salt and light for the world, true agents of change, as Christ calls and equips us to be.

But first, allow me to name a few things about how we arrived at this present moment. I believe that it is true that the things we do not talk about will never improve. Failure to name and discuss where we have been is both an engine of the status quo and a guarantor of generational trauma.

If you began your ministry anytime in the last thirty years or so, or if you were a layperson in leadership in a local church during that time, you likely participated in some gathering at the district, the conference, or the denominational level that spoke to you in great length about techniques. This is particularly true of the clergy, but not solely limited to us. For example, if you were ever told to read books written by the likes of Patrick Lencioni, Marty Linksey, Ronald Heifetz, Jim Collins, or Stephen Covey, you are likely one of the people I am talking about. If your church has a three word slogan, I can almost promise you that at some point, your church’s leadership read a book titled Simple Church. 

For a while, all you had to do was go to the airport and purchase books at Hudson News.

The central conceit of this movement was for the church to look to the business world, and to believe that the only things standing between Christian leaders and wildly successful congregations was better leadership and strategic planning, and who better to teach us the techniques to accomplish than the world of business and business books. “Just learn the proper techniques,” we seemed to say, “and you will be a success. You will be well-known, highly-respected, even sought-after. From the caterpillar that is Steve Jobs, you stand to emerge from the cocoon of techniques as the next Adam Hamilton.”

The problem is that it didn’t work.

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Open Doors

03 Wednesday Sep 2025

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When I was elected to be an alternate delegate to General/Jurisdictional Conference in 2019, I had no idea I was about to become a district superintendent the following year. I had no idea that COVID was coming. I had no idea that six years later, I would still be a member of the delegation. I had no idea how the future would unfold for me or for my beloved United Methodist Church.

In all of those years, I missed two delegation meetings, one for a time-sensitive situation on the Valley Ridge District I needed to address that night, and the other was so Tracy and I could celebrate our silver wedding anniversary together.

If all of those meetings, if all of that time spent reading legislation, if all that time in the car driving back and forth to meetings did nothing else for me but get me in the room when Helen Ryde said the words quoted below from the floor of the General Conference, it was more than worth it, all of it.

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Don’t Dream It’s Over

10 Sunday Nov 2024

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Matthew 25:31-46

The Sermon for the Valley Ridge District Conference November 9, 2024

Growing up in the 1970s and 1980s, I lived within a certain set of assumptions, ones that were rarely, if ever questioned, explored, or critiqued. They just were. These assumptions were taught to me in school and reinforced at home, or taught to me at home and reinforced at school, and the children and youth of my generation were expected to consistently abide by them. These assumptions included things such as being told at the dinner table that when I said I was full, I must at least finish the meat on my plate. When I competed in little league baseball and was standing in the batter’s box, a pitch was a strike if umpire said so, regardless of how obviously low and outside it was.

Perhaps the most unquestionable assumption of my childhood, one that no matter where I found myself, at school or at home or anywhere else, was that it was always dangerous to swim less than an hour after eating. If you did this, I was told, you were guaranteed to drown. I am the descendant on both sides of my family of more Chesapeake Bay watermen than I can count, and I assure you that you do not have a childhood infused with this kind of influence without hearing terrifying stories of people drowning, which made all of this worse. 

When I was a child, my family were members of a local pool and during my elementary school summers, before I was afforded the privilege to ride my bike to go swimming, my mother would pack lunches and accompany my brother and me for a day at the pool. On those days, this was the kind of conversation that would occur after we had eaten our sandwiches:

“Now boys, I want you to go sit those chairs until I tell you to get in the pool.”

“It’s hot. Why can’t we swim now?”

“You just ate. You need to wait an hour before you go swimming.”

“Why?”

“Because you will drown.”

“But if that is true, why does the pool have a snack bar?”

“Go sit in your chair. I will let you know when it is 1:30.”

As an aside, I once went on a cruise and saw people eating and swimming at the same time. Do with that data point what you will.

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Fresh Wineskins

31 Thursday Oct 2024

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A Reflection at the End of Clergy Appreciation Month, 2024

New wine must be put into fresh wineskins.

Luke 5:38

From 2005 to 2014, I had the immense blessing of serving as the pastor of Crozet United Methodist Church. Crozet is situated in Albemarle County, about a dozen miles from the grounds of the University of Virginia.

One of the wonderful things about serving in that particular community was its connection to UVA. In fact, I quickly realized that if I could schedule my pastoral visitation just right, I would see most of the men’s ACC basketball tournament in March. In every home and hospital room, the games were on the television and at some point, they would inevitably become part of the conversation.

And to be clear, no one ever turned off these games simply because the pastor was in the room.

 In March of 2009, the Cavaliers received a new head coach, a thirty-nine-year-old man named Tony Bennett. His previous position had been as the head coach of the men’s basketball program at Washington State University. He was humble and kind with a magnetic personality that immediately brought out the best in everyone around him, attributes that would quickly win over the notoriously hard-to-please UVA faithful. He would need this support as he took this position. The last time the Cavaliers had a men’s basketball team as bad as the one he inherited was two years before he was born.

“He’s too good,” a parishioner told me one afternoon. “We will never be able to keep him.”

Yet keep him they did. Bennett coached at Virginia for fifteen years, winning just under 73% of the 500 games his team played during that time. He coached the Cavaliers through the humiliation of becoming the first number one seed to lose to a lowest-ranked number sixteen seed in the men’s NCAA tournament in 2018, and he coached them to redemption as they won the national championship the following year. 

I remember his first words when he was interviewed immediately after that victory in 2019. With confetti still falling from the rafters, Bennett leaned into the microphone and said, “Coaches tend to receive too much blame when teams lose and too much credit when they win.”

Humble and kind, bringing out the best in everyone around him. 

And now it is all over. 

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